Introduction

 

One of the most common things we hear is, “I want to be cooperative, but my co-parent doesn't!”

Interestingly enough, sometimes in the same family both parents seem honestly to see themselves as the only one working for cooperation and peace.

We assume that because you're taking the time to read this article, you really are focused on your children's need for peace in their lives— and on taking the lead in improving the interaction they need you to have with their other parent.

Here are some things we think can help you with that difficult challenge.

 

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"A mother is a person who, seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never did care for pie."

—Tenneva Jordan

"As children we always sought our father's approval. We especially wanted him to see the 'As' on our report cards, notice the rainbows we made from construction paper, watch the way we rode bikes with no hands. This continued well into adulthood. 'Did you tell Daddy about my promotion?' I'd ask my mother long distance.”"

—Patricia Elam Ruff