• Kids of divorce need and want some simple things, like courteous communication between their parents
• No matter how small the topic (birthdays, holidays, pickups, etc.), parent fights leave kids badly hurt.
• Kids don't want one parent to win the fight; kids want one parent to stop the fight.
• Kids almost never care about the things we parents are fighting about; they just want the fights to stop.
• When parents fight, kids' real needs can become invisible.
• Kids experience attacks between their parents as attacks on them.
• Parent fights can force kids to try to resolve adult issues - and to blame themselves when they fail.

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