1. “Are you interested in saving your marriage?”
2. “Most of what can help you is up to you.”
3. “You might be better off if I do less, so work to keep my fees as low as possible.”
4. “Let's put your wishes aside for the moment; tell me what you think your children need.”
5. “Divorce is about winning with your spouse, not over your spouse.”
6. “Custody evaluations can be dangerously bad ideas—as bad as trials.”
7. “Tell me what's really good about your spouse—and your spouse's parenting..”
8. “If you can do so safely, you should speak with and cooperate with your spouse/co-parent.”
9. “What do you think your spouse needs?”

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