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Divorced Parents Caught in Conflict: The One Question That Can Make All the Difference
September 27, 2017 / 0 COMMENTS /UpToParents has received countless questions over the past decade concerning how to handle different parenting circumstances—and, yes, conflict—during separation and divorce. Our friend and colleague, Pat Brown, has helped inform the litmus test question we suggest parents use whenever they’re facing a co-parenting dilemma: “What do we want our children to look like when they’re … Continued
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Letting Go of Guilt as a Divorced Parent
May 24, 2017 / 0 COMMENTS /A friend who’s been through a divorce recently confided to me his anxieties and guilt about how the divorce could affect his son in the years to come. The list of his worries was long, and I could tell my friend was pained thinking through all of the “what if’s.” After listening to the growing … Continued