Part I: Deciding What Lawyers (If Any) to Use

Remember that your healing wishes should be respected.

1. Use your website work to choose a good attorney—and to guide that attorney.
2. Consider “unbundling”—limiting attorney work to where it's needed.
3. Find an attorney interseted in your best interests:
   • reconciliation possibilities
   • cooperation with your co-parent
   • limiting attorney time and fees
   • avoiding unnecessary conflict