9. Keeping your co–parent present

Keep at least two pictures of their other parent in each of the children’s rooms. And make sure they feel free to speak about their other parent.

Give yourself 10 points on your Score Sheet if you can say, “I have at least two pictures of our children’s other parent in their rooms.”

“The important thing is this: To be able at any moment to sacrifice what we are for what we could become.”

—Charles du Bois