10 Clear Thoughts—Just When You May Need Them Most
6. Unless there's a safety issue, children need the best possible relationship with both parents.
Although it can be hard to remember, you have a vital interest in your children's best possible relationship with their other parent. The best mom still isn't a dad, and the best dad still isn't a mom.
Consider supporting whatever safe relationship the children can have with each of you.
Show Extra Tip- Separate your children's right to a good relationship with their other parent from any hurt or resentment you feel toward that parent.
- Remember that many people who fail as spouses are still good parents.
- Share one good trait or positive memory about your co-parent with your children every day—and notice their reaction to hearing you affirm something good they take from their other parent.
"The best parent is both parents."